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Wednesday, Oct. 16, 2013

Thursday - 10/17/2013, 12:17am  ET

Michelle Basch, wtop.com

WASHINGTON - If a teenage boy suddenly develops an "I don't care" attitude, it might not be Mom or Dad's fault.

New research shows girls have an increasing ability to recognize and understand what other people are feeling, called cognitive empathy, starting at age 13.

But this ability drops for boys between the ages of 13 and 16, before rising again when they reach their late teens.

The findings come from a study recently published in the journal Developmental Psychology.

Of course boys also have to deal with raging hormones and peer pressure.

"They're under tremendous social pressure to act like a man, and many of them define that as acting detatched, aloof, (and) funny," Sue Shellenbarger, The Wall Street Journal's Work & Family Columnist told WTOP.

If your child is acting this way, Shellenbarger suggested trying to talk to him about what's going on.

"One thing you can say is, 'I see you're really acting pretty detatched. I know that isn't who you really are. Is there anything I can do to help you? What are you dealing with right now?'"

"If a boy can start talking about what their emotional experience really is, it may help them manage those emotions and be more real with others," she added.

Listen to Sue Shellenbarger's interview on WTOP.

2:20 p.m. - Sue Shellenbarger, 'Work & Family' Columnist for the Wall Street Journal

Cultivating sensitivity in teenagers

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Read more from the Wall Street Journal: Teens Are Still Developing Empathy Skills


8:10 p.m. - Norman Kelley, 'How Washington Works' filmmaker

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7:40 p.m. Roxanne Jones, former vice president at ESPN

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7:20 p.m. Michael Hirsch,chief correspondent for the National Journal

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6:20 p.m. Jonathan Allen, White House Bureau Chief for POLITICO

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5:40 p.m. George Wallace, WTOP Redskins beat reporter

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5:10 p.m. - Rachel Smolkin, managing editor, POLITICO

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4:40 p.m. - Jill Schlesinger, business analyst, CBS

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4:10 p.m. -- Major Garrett, chief White House correspondent, CBS News

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3:10 p.m. - Sylvia Allegretto, labor economist and co-chair of the Center on Wage and Employment Dynamics at the University of California, Berkeley

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12:51 p.m. - Dave Ross, commentator

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WTOP's Dick Uliano reports.

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11:10 a.m. - Michelle Singletary, Washington Post

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Related Link: Washington Post: Shutdown should be a wake-up call for us all


8:40 a.m. - Robert Blizzard, co-founder of Public Opinion Strategies

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7:10 a.m. - Jim Nussle, former Office of Management and budget director

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6:40 a.m. - Nancy Cordes, CBS News congressional correspondent

How close is the Senate to reaching a deal on the debt ceiling?

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